Dear Guys, if you and your girl are fighting and you're
on the brink of breaking up, as the boyfriend, you can't allow that to happen.
If you love her, you don't let her go. Even if she wants you to. Even if she
insists that you do.
Even if she already let you go. You keep trying to fight
for her. You keep trying to win her back. You keep trying to fix it. You don't
give up on the girl you love. You just don't. Even when she doesn't reply to
your messages. Even when she refuses to see you.
Even when she's being cruel to you.
You don't let that discourage you from reminding her of what she means to you of showing her how much she's worth to you. You make an effort to prove to her why she should be with you and you don't back down. Even when she tries to push you away, you stand your ground and you tell that girl how much you love her. Obviously, you can't force her to be with you if she truly doesn't want to be, but you need to at least try to save the relationship. You need to at least try to get thru to her and have her have a change of heart. You need to at least try to reassure her that everything will be okay because at least, you'll be able to say you tried. But damn, you don't just easily let go of the girl you love and give up on her like that. If you do, you never really loved her in the first place and sometimes, just sometimes, that's all a girl really hopes to see from you. To see how hurt you'd be if she had left. To see how you'd react if you were to lose her. To see how determined you'd be to keep her from walking away.
You don't let that discourage you from reminding her of what she means to you of showing her how much she's worth to you. You make an effort to prove to her why she should be with you and you don't back down. Even when she tries to push you away, you stand your ground and you tell that girl how much you love her. Obviously, you can't force her to be with you if she truly doesn't want to be, but you need to at least try to save the relationship. You need to at least try to get thru to her and have her have a change of heart. You need to at least try to reassure her that everything will be okay because at least, you'll be able to say you tried. But damn, you don't just easily let go of the girl you love and give up on her like that. If you do, you never really loved her in the first place and sometimes, just sometimes, that's all a girl really hopes to see from you. To see how hurt you'd be if she had left. To see how you'd react if you were to lose her. To see how determined you'd be to keep her from walking away.
Sincerely,
A guy who cares